What should I do? (serious girl-related (yeah yeah im sorry!)

Okay, i'm in a bit of a pickle, and because i have no idea who you are, and i can remain anonymous, i'd like to share my feelings and problem with you, you lovely bunch of total strangers :). I'll be as brief as possible.I've had a girlfriend for a month now (Girl A), she's only my second ever (i'm 18) which is probs due to me not being OVERLY attractive, not 'ugly' but not really attractive. Anyway, she's quite pretty, very sweet and she says she loves me. She's not particularly intelligent, not sure she'd get on with my family and although we like being together, have pretty much nothing in common.But, for about 2 years i've really liked this other girl (Girl B), she's a fair bit more attractive, a lot more intelligent and we have LOADS in common. We're pretty much best friends (not quite but quite close) and i've asked her out before (about 4 months ago). She said no. But since then, maybe it's cos she knows i have a gf, but we've become even closer and well, i really like her.So my predicament:Do i stick 1) with my gf, who's not perfect but kind and sweet and i should shut up and apppreciate what i have2) Dump my gf and ask girl B if she wants to go out with me/likes me (with the distinct possibility of her saying no, thus leaving me with no one and ruining our friendship).3) Complain some more about my trivial little teenager problems to other complete strangers on the intrawebz?Any help would be greatly appreciated! I also feel even more down because i jsut failed my driving test *needs hug*What should I do? (serious girl-related (yeah yeah im sorry!)
Wait until Girl B tries to make a move on you, and tell her you aren't comfortable doing that while you're in a relationship.



But, tell her you're willing to leave Girl A for her. :PWhat should I do? (serious girl-related (yeah yeah im sorry!)
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Date both on a casual level. Unless you've already popped the question, you're under no obligation to stick with one.
I wouldn't leave Girl A unless there was absolutely no way I could enjoy a relationship with her. It's not worth the risk.
Would you consider breaking up with Girl A without having any provocation from another girl's interest? Or would you hold on to whatever you can get for fear of not ever getting anyone else? If you would break up with Girl A in that situation, break up with her.



Then go after Girl B. If you reverse these steps, I would expect another thread in about a month saying you don't know why you have two girls who hate you.
[QUOTE=''aliblabla2007'']I wouldn't leave Girl A unless there was absolutely no way I could enjoy a relationship with her. It's not worth the risk. [/QUOTE]

If he's not really that into her and he doesn't even want to introduce her to the family, then she's clearly just there for fun, imo.
[QUOTE=''aliblabla2007''] I wouldn't leave Girl A unless there was absolutely no way I could enjoy a relationship with her. It's not worth the risk.[/QUOTE]What risk? He's only been dating Girl A for a month.
[QUOTE=''Jandurin'']Wait until Girl B tries to make a move on you, and tell her you aren't comfortable doing that while you're in a relationship.



But, tell her you're willing to leave Girl A for her. :P[/QUOTE]

Damn where do you come up with an advice like this? This must be the best one I have heard here :P
[QUOTE=''Oleg_Huzwog'']Date both on a casual level. Unless you've already popped the question, you're under no obligation to stick with one.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, most girls I encountered thought that going out for pizza was one step away from marriage. While he might choose to look at it as casual dating, they certainly won't.
Girl B is messing with you because she knows that you like her and she's testing to see if she can break someone up. She doesn't want you but she will lead you on until you break up with Girl A or cheat on her.
[QUOTE=''DDRMom'']Girl B is messing with you because she knows that you like her and she's testing to see if she can break someone up. She doesn't want you but she will lead you on until you break up with Girl A or cheat on her. [/QUOTE]

I'm not sure I agree with this.



Sometimes, girls are stupid, and don't really see someone as dateable until they're dating someone else. That doesn't automatically make them the ''bad guy''.
[QUOTE=''FragStains'']Unfortunately, most girls I encountered thought that going out for pizza was one step away from marriage. While he might choose to look at it as casual dating, they certainly won't.[/QUOTE] Most? Hmmm... I think I've only dated one girl who fits that description. I ran far, far away.
I'd go with 1 and 3.
I just had the greatest idea. Get both girls together, tell them the situation. Then, start crying. Tell them that you are going to kill yourself since you don't know what to do. Whichever girl tells you to just go out with the other girl is the one you choose.



And video this, please.
[QUOTE=''Jandurin'']If he's not really that into her and he doesn't even want to introduce her to the family, then she's clearly just there for fun, imo.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=''Oleg_Huzwog''][QUOTE=''aliblabla2007''] I wouldn't leave Girl A unless there was absolutely no way I could enjoy a relationship with her. It's not worth the risk.[/QUOTE]What risk? He's only been dating Girl A for a month.[/QUOTE]Oh really? Well, uh, to be honest, I'm pretty sleepy right now, so I don't think I read the OP properly. But I guess if it's not really serious, then it won't break her heart or anything like that.
[QUOTE=''FragStains'']I just had the greatest idea. Get both girls together, tell them the situation. Then, start crying. Tell them that you are going to kill yourself since you don't know what to do. Whichever girl tells you to just go out with the other girl is the one you choose. And video this, please.[/QUOTE]Hey, you're right! That IS the greatest idea. TC's problem has been solved.
I'd say there is too much risk involved, so I'd stick with Girl A for now. You can't just dart from one girl to another- it won't end well for you.
[QUOTE=''Jandurin'']I'm not sure I agree with this. Sometimes, girls are stupid, and don't really see someone as dateable until they're dating someone else. That doesn't automatically make them the ''bad guy''.[/QUOTE]Sure sometimes that's the case but the majority of the time, it's not. Sometimes, boys are stupid and will give up a good thing for the slight chance of something better and most times will lose both. Girls know this and most will play on that.
[QUOTE=''More_Dakka''] I'd say there is too much risk involved, so I'd stick with Girl A for now. You can't just dart from one girl to another- it won't end well for you.[/QUOTE]Again, he's been with Girl A for only a month. He wouldn't be risking anything significant.